Welcome to my dumping-ground

Edited MSN conversation with Jasmine the December bride-to-be.


敏 >.<" says:
y so sudden? i tot u say want wait a while more?
敏 >.<" says:
your bf scared u run away arh
Jasmine says:
we wanna settle down early
er ren shi jie first before 30 then have kid
Jasmine says:
so about time lor..
敏 >.<" says:
so how he propose??!!!!!!
Jasmine says:
he not typical la
Jasmine says:
singaporean usually pop question with HDB flat application
he just ask a simple question "can i give u a legal status"
then i replied "huh?"
then he said legal status to let people address me "mrs Lim" (his surname is lim la)
then i asked y the rush.. he said not rush.. just wanna settle down
敏 >.<" says:
then u said ok arh???
Jasmine says:
then i ask him what plans he has go do a "proposal" i go through first then decide
he bring me go choose ring then knowing the size liao he brought a proposal ring also
then he bought bridal magazine
then i asked him for th proposal plans.. he showed me his savings
then he said he notgood with words
but is not going to ask me apply flat now
he said he want to spend his life with me not servingthe HDB flat installment
anyway flats are SO ex now
敏 >.<" says:
xing fu mah???
Jasmine says:
sweet sweet lor
Jasmine says:
he want ROM then banquet.. i want ROM don't want banquet
i thought getting married 2 person business y involve whole world
but he only son at home + he is eldest grandson....
Jasmine says:
best part is his old old Ah Gong still around so the banquet cannot go away with it
敏 >.<" says:
so happy for u!!!
敏 >.<" says:
(clap clap))
敏 >.<" says:
ni yao xing fu orh!!!!
Jasmine says:
we argue about that, bridal pacckages and even venue heng we didn't go buy fla if not worst.. venue, unit, renovation
敏 >.<" says:
so how big is the hole in your pocket?
Jasmine says:
share cost lor..
Jasmine says:
he paid the banquet deposit - since he is the one who wants about 7 k
Jasmine says:
then i paid for the bridal package he paid for the photos top up
敏 >.<" says:
so i say wedding is ma fan... go thru all the trouble jus to make others happy...
敏 >.<" says:
end up tiring the couple
Jasmine says:
luckily his mum is modern mummy not fussy kind
敏 >.<" says:
but wat makes u really want to get married now? and y him?
Jasmine says:
he is the only guy so far i met who can tolerate my temper then he is the type who will correct me when i m wrong not those who will always give in without thinking just to please me
Jasmine says:
though selling car is not consider a stble job but he work really hard to make sure income stable
敏 >.<" says:
but y now?
Jasmine says:
my studies not yet finshed
Jasmine says:
so if married now will enjoy er ren si jie not gn cheong to make baby type
敏 >.<" says:
but then ho
敏 >.<" says:
still can enjoy er ren shi jie without getting married also lei...
Jasmine says:
er ren si jie with parents constantly watching over us
Jasmine says:
lol