Welcome to my dumping-ground

Lost my sleep yesterday.
Bro told me that mum is not very happy with MQ living with us.
She initially said she ok de and I tot tat settle everything.
Now I’m back to square one. I’m totally lost to what should I do.

It would have been better if MQ has a place to stay, but the reason with him staying with us is he DO NOT have a proper place to sleep.
His father is living with one uncle and mum/sis living with another.
MQ can of course stay with one of the uncle but then it will be sleeping at the door step of the living room.
How pathetic is this lo, at least I have a room for him.

So anyway the 1st ‘idea’ that came to my mind was to rent a room so that we will not be an ‘eye-sore’ at home.
I ask MQ about this, he said “we can do whatever we want but we still have to answer to our parents(read: MY parents), plus we do not have any status, how will others think. (read: how my parents think).”
Honestly, I don care how others think. But then if they concern our parents then …. ….
But I have already told him that so long as I do not find a job that im stable in and clear off our debts, than there is no way im getting ROM.
Alright, now is not MQ don wan, is I refuse to get ROM.
And getting married for a house to stay is not right too...

I mean I notice he is not VERY happy living in my house too, its not his home.
But we still have to make do with what we have.
But being practical, renting a room will only be a burden to us financially.
It will also delay our debts clearance. Plus my parents will not allow.
Its not a very brilliant solution but still…
What can I do???

AND, the issue of his parents.
If we ever get a house, I can foresee we be living together.
Which I really really don wan.
Its not I don like his family, jus tat I do not accept the way they… behave? Talk? Communicate?...
I know I have to talk to my mum about this.
But then the problem will still be there.
I may pacify her now, but few months later, it will be like now again.
Then im back to square one.
I need a solution to solve this permanently.

Can someone tell me what to do???!!!